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Post by missdepp14 on Oct 9, 2006 10:49:05 GMT -5
well, my parents have no clue either about my JDOCD and i hide this incredible web site, and all my pics too because i'll be totally embarrassed if my mom&dad will find out about my JDOCD, and not cuz i'm ashamed with Johnny, absolutely not!!! it will be because my parents (especially my dad) cant understand that i'm a kinda of a grown up already, that i'm not a little girl any more, that i'm 14 years old and i can be attracted to other MALES!!! i want them to stop making fun of me and to stop laughing about me and this subject.
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Post by anahita7 on Oct 9, 2006 12:11:38 GMT -5
I think you've got to be true to yourself before you can make changes in the way other people look at you. How do you expect them to understand that you like Johnny if you keep hiding him from them? Be open with your feelings, and they will understand, I promise you. And I LOVE your siggy!
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Post by Another Lost Angel on Oct 9, 2006 18:05:07 GMT -5
aw you'll feel better if you say something it was hard for me too and my dad still doesnt get it (haha he's jealous;)) but trust me you'll be glad you told!
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Post by xLuv!n Johnnyx on Oct 10, 2006 5:41:46 GMT -5
I agree you should be open with your JDOCD I'm sure over time you're parents will "adapt" to it, lol thats wat mine did! At firest they were like" oh god, not johnny depp again," and sometimes they teased me when he was on tv, but eventually they realised that i didnt care, so they just gave up! But at skool its still the same! , they always say how old he is '__', but i do not care! You can do it mate!
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Post by missdepp14 on Oct 10, 2006 9:42:24 GMT -5
you don't understand... the problem is not with the obsession itself, it's about tha fact that i'm obsessed with Johnny, who is an adult man, the fact that i like him and that i'm attracted to him... you know..? they think i'm still a little girl. that i maybe 10 years old or something... i'm embarrassed because of my dad especially... cuz Johnny himself is even older than him and everything... oh, and thanks for the advices, i can always trust on you guys
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Post by sodepplyinlove on Oct 10, 2006 14:15:48 GMT -5
Johnny is older than my father XP probaly yours too? any time i'm watching a movie at home [yupp johnny depp would always happen to be in it]... Dad will walk in the room,look at the TV and be like 'Not THAT GUY again' LOL or it's like 'Johnny depp.... hm he is quite the actor'. Meh,,I can see in a WAY why you wanna hide stuff,i mean the first thing i say when i meet people it's 'OMG DO YOU LIKE JOHNNY DEPP'. Although sometimes the urge comes up lol,,but ya dont wanna scare people away
LOl but meehhh people should accept you for who you are be yourself!
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Post by esther on Oct 10, 2006 15:22:13 GMT -5
i do hide it for my parents, i never can SAY it to them, if they want to now it they have to find out themselves, they kind of know i like him cause of all the movies i got of him. but they don't know how obsessed i am. they don't need to no though, my mom is always laughing at me about like...everything she doesn't understands, i know she won't understand this and I don't give her the pleasure to laugh at me.. my brother is even worse, he would be aweful to me about it
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Post by blackpearl1stmate on Oct 10, 2006 18:09:22 GMT -5
Wow, I'm not the only one who's parents aren't "aware". missdepp14 my parents are like yours i think, they dont get it that It's OK for me to like guys, I mean i'v never told them about my crushes just cuz i didn't want to. They probably think I never look twice at any guy, so it would be super weird for my first (according to them) love to be this 43 yr old actor... I really can't think of any reason why I DONT tell them other than it feels so weird. I think my dad knows I like him but has no clue the extent! The other day when we were going to see the imax movie Deep Sea (Johnny narrates part of it) he said "JOHNNY DEPP IS IN IT CAROLINE". So i was like "really?" cuz i already knew that obviously. Mom has no clue and that's fine with me. so we go along, go along, go along...
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Post by jd290 on Oct 19, 2006 14:13:20 GMT -5
okay, the first post (the important start one) and the last, i tottally agree with. i'm like that. my parents just wouldn't understand. we've never been close at all. i wish they knew so i could be more open and stuff, but it's just hard. i thought maybe gradually making it obvious would work, but not really. all my friends, plus everybody at school knows, but not my parents. they think i just like him a little if anything. which is so not true because i have a bad case of jdocd. i just wanna scream it but i can't. once they know, (hopefully soon) i will 1) get an actual account here. i don't know why i waited. hopefully just a start of being open. 2) get more memorbelia stuff! 3) not hide all my school stuff with pictures and doodles and his name...... 4) scream at home and not just at school when i have a jdocd phsyco moment
and some more which i cant think of now
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Post by missdepp14 on Oct 22, 2006 10:38:45 GMT -5
sometimes i want so bad to put posters of johnny all over the walls in my room but i'm embarrassed of my parents... in thier minds i'm still 5 years old girl. of course they'll eventually find out about my jdocd cuz i have one in the worse condition, i've even thought of commit suicide few times because of my serious jdocd but that's already another story...
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